Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Is it really happening in Thimphu??



Recently I was in a salon doing the usual thing a girl does and I came across somebody very interesting. A lady in her early 30's came rushing in to do her usual stuffs in the salon . We were not comfortable for a conversation at first but she broke the ice ( Me not good with starting a conversation ).
I do not know how far it could be true but her words shocked me. I ve heard of young girls becoming prey to the rich and the hot and happening men due to their financial obligations but never knew it was this serious.

Can this be really true? How many of us have found some helpless school girls with a man in the hotel rooms? I did see some but not exactly those types who would do anything for money. I can understand its difficult to survive in this developing yet, challenging world but who can go to this extent??

The way she described those young helpless girls tore me apart.. These days, those helpless creatures can be easily lured by the car's key and a cell phone on a man's hand. They are usually found drinking in their school dress with a man by her side. A simple offer of a mobile voucher can also make her agree...I was told that, its not a man these days but the woman giving herself away.

I was astonished beyond words but there was more to come. Keeping a wife home and driving away with another woman? When Karma (name changed...the lady i had a nice conversation with), told me that she does not even trust her husband, I suddenly felt a pang in my heart...should I be doing the same thing? Is it really important not to have faith in your relationship anymore? Does this keep us from getting less hurt? 

7 comments:

  1. Its one kind of a post to start with-sensitive yet interesting....keep going...

    i guess its one of those modern cultures we don't hesitate to bring in...God bless the young girls.

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  2. Realities sud come out in de lime light sir :)

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  3. Such undesirable activities are becoming rampant but seems like negligible to the eyes of higher authorities. However, good thing is that we, as a teacher should start fighting for our youth. After all, one single person that our youth can trust today is the teacher… Really interesting and insightful post. Keep posting la.

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  4. i see u already started to get some attention :p Keep going

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  5. Hi, it's nice to see you blogging. You will meet here many souls that are of genuine, lover of writing and caretaker of our society. This post is very significant, that you are into caring what our young girls are up to. I feel bad to hear all this. But a person like you bringing out such issue may push this problems to our policymakers and bring positive change. All the best!

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  6. thank u guys...such thoughtful comments encourage me more...i shall keep writing and fight for de young generations..esp the helpless.we sud become one if we want a future worth living :))

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